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Don\u2019t Choose Between Tough and Soft Leadership. Do Both.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

To the Editor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I read the recent dueling essays by Greg Berman<\/a> and Eboo Patel<\/a> about whether Gen Z workers need \u201ctough love\u201d or a softer touch, I immediately thought of Tevye from Fiddler on the Roof,<\/em> throwing up his hands and declaring, \u201cAnd you<\/em> are also right!\u201d It\u2019s a charming line, and in this case, a surprisingly accurate summary of decades of psychological research.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because when it comes to effective leadership, it\u2019s not \u201ctough or soft.\u201d It\u2019s \u201cyes.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Across fields from developmental psychology to organizational behavior, the evidence consistently shows that people thrive in environments with both high warmth and high standards. Parenting researchers call this the \u201cauthoritative\u201d style: adults who offer genuine emotional support while setting clear expectations and following through. Children raised with this blend, neither overly permissive nor overly punitive, show stronger academic, emotional, and behavioral outcomes. Balance, it turns out, isn\u2019t indecision \u2014 it\u2019s strategy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And when those children grow up and enter the workplace, the formula doesn\u2019t magically rewrite itself. Psychological safety, the sense that you can speak up, take risks, and be imperfect without humiliation, is essential for learning and innovation. But safety alone won\u2019t pull anyone toward excellence. Growth needs structure, honest feedback, ambitious goals, and leaders who can pair compassion with accountability.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Warmth without rigor can feel comforting at first but quickly becomes confusing. If everything is always fine, nothing is clear. Rigor without warmth may generate short-term compliance, but long-term? Mostly exit interviews.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Seen this way, the Gen Z debate is less about \u201ckids these days\u201d and more about the skills of the leaders shaping them. Younger workers didn\u2019t invent the desire for humane workplaces; they\u2019re simply less willing to pretend that rigidity is \u201cpaying dues\u201d or that harshness equals professionalism. And like all of us, they do their best work under leaders who can say, with kindness and conviction, \u201cI know how high you can go. What do you need from me to get there?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This matters especially in the nonprofit sector, where the work is mission-driven, the pace is relentless, and we cannot afford to choose between compassion and competence. Our organizations run on both.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

High warmth and high standards aren\u2019t a compromise. They\u2019re the evidence-based sweet spot and the kind of leadership that will let the fiddlers come down from the roof and work on some solid ground.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Michelle Quist Ryder
Chief Executive Officer
American Psychological Foundation<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gen Z Wants Better Workplaces, Not Softer Leadership<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

To the Editor:
Eboo Patel\u2019s recent essay \u2014 \u201cWhy Your Gen Z Workers Need Tough Love<\/a>,\u201d January 13 \u2014 frames the challenge of managing generational tension in today\u2019s nonprofit workplaces as a choice between compassion and excellence. But the real divide is between outdated management norms and healthier workplaces that solve the challenges of an evolving world.

We\u2019re colleagues at CoGenerate, a nonprofit working to bridge generational divides. We conducted research<\/a> exploring what younger and older leaders in the nonprofit world want from each other. While we uncovered generational differences, they weren\u2019t about lower standards. Instead, they focused on issues such as work-life balance, the desire to be taken seriously, and whether \u201cpaying your dues\u201d still has a place in a world where the promised rewards often don\u2019t arrive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One of us (Marci) is a Gen Xer who grew up in the so-called tough love era and says the best leaders she worked with offered opportunities, honest feedback, and chances to grow and lead. The other (Duncan) is a millennial who entered a work force shaped by economic precarity and a lack of stable career paths. In that environment, questioning long-standing expectations wasn\u2019t about entitlement. It was an honest assessment of a changed workplace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today we work inside a nonprofit with co-CEOs of different ages, genders, and cultural backgrounds. That structure models an approach to power-sharing that we hope sets an example for the sector.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The two of us speak in a range of settings, from college classrooms to Fortune 500 companies and leading nonprofits. From our observations, it\u2019s clear that the strongest organizations aren\u2019t clinging to old leadership models. They\u2019re adapting as the context changes and encouraging young leaders to act as innovators, guides, and even mentors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Young people aren\u2019t the only ones seeking a new kind of workplace. Experienced leaders want many of the same things: purpose, respect, opportunities to grow, and organizations that align values with action. Reimaging organizational dynamics does not come easily, as anyone who has tried to shake up outdated, hierarchical power structures knows. But when it happens, the benefits can be profound.

Marci Alboher
Chief Engagement Officer
CoGenerate<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duncan Magidson
Director of Digital Communications and Engagement
CoGenerate<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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